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Do you approve/engage in Masturbation?
Hell yeah!!
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Sometimes..but not all the time!
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I haven't done it yet :(
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Ewww~~!! Gross!! perverts!!
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What's Masturbation? O_o
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No, I don't approve of Masturbation. It's Immoral!!
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 4:00 am    Post subject: Masturbation Reply with quote

Here`s a topic to spice things up a bit Cool

Just follow up a vote and an opinion on what do you think about Masturbation or Self Pleasure.^^

Here`s something that may shock some femme out there, Scientist truly claim that Masturbation is healthy and can be exercised as an activity and to enchance sexual performance!

Is it true? do you wanna protess? Can`t believe it? Voice out all your opinions here!

Boys and Girl, Men and Women around the globe participate in this kind of activities, are you one of them? dont be shy! let it all out here!

~~~~~~~~~~Short Summarization about Masturbation~~~~~~~~~~~

It's Normal, Healthy and Okay to Masturbate!

Masturbation can be defined as self-stimulation to cause sexual sensations. The use of the word masturbation usually suggests that the person is manipulating his or her genitals to the point of intense pleasure or orgasm. (Orgasm refers to a period of intense excitement in which genital muscles enter in to a series of highly-pleasurable contractions or movements).
While masturbation can involve another person, most of us think of it as a very private act. According to some health care providers masturbation allows a healthy way to express & explore your sexuality and to release sexual tension without all the associated risks of sexual intercourse. Health professionals generally agree that this private touching is a natural, normal mode of self-exploration and sexual expression. Unfortunately, after the excitement of the moment has passed, many people find themselves filled with guilty and or shame.

Why all this guilt and shame? Actually, from American History.

A little bit of American History:
Our attitudes about masturbation have deep roots for sure. Around the turn-of-the-century, some adults were so against masturbation that they forced their daughters to wear gloves made of a steel-wool-like material (like Brillo pads) at night and to put a powder on their genitals that made them painful to touch. They made their sons wear metal chastity belts at night that made it painful to have an erection. During the 1820s male masturbation was prevented by piecing the foreskin with a wire and soldering the ends together. Boys and girls were discouraged from masturbation by the threat of blindness, madness and illness. Of course, all of these are not true.

Of course, the subject of masturbation was taboo years before the United States was created. All kinds of chastity belts and other devices were used to prevent masturbation, probably as far back in history as you can go. This will vary from culture to culture.

The Truth?
Most surveys suggest that approximately 94% of teenage males "admitted" that they masturbated and about 70% of teen females "admitted" to this also. It’s always hard to establish absolute truth in any survey on sexuality and sexual behavior, since they are influenced so much by what people think is "normal". It is important to note the word "admitted" in the results of these surveys. Doesn't that word imply something shameful about the act of masturbating? We think so. This leads us to believe that we are still suffering from the residual Victorian morals when boys and girls were discouraged from masturbating.

Teaching Masturbation -- you asked? Yes, Believe it or Not!

In the 1970's and 1980's, a woman named Betty Dodson,Ph.D., achieved much fame from her approach to masturbation. She actually held classes for women to teach them how to masturbate. She thought that in order for women to overcome certain degrees of repression that she believed were instilled by the church, women needed to learn how to "celebrate" their bodies. She made the point that masturbation needed to be celebrated, and not allowed to create guilt. She admitted that overcoming guilt was very difficult -- for men & women, especially when the guilt was instilled by the voice of their mothers at an early age. Mother's told children not to touch themselves "down there" and wow, what an embarrassment if the child did that in public!

For many people the consequence of our mothers' or fathers' difficulty with our innocent sexuality when we were toddlers and infants may be the reason that the experience and enjoyment of our own bodies is taken away from us, or we are still allowed (made) to feel ashamed in some way when we feel pleasure from exploring our own bodies.

Even More Taboo...
In 1994 Dr. Jocelyn Elders - the first woman appointed to the position of U.S. Surgeon General lost her job as Surgeon General because she dared to say that masturbation should actually be taught in schools. We think her mistake was when she said, "It's practicing for sex" . She never implied that a method of masturbation be taught... or did she?

Masturbation Myths -- There Are Lots More of Course.

"Masturbation isn't "real sex" and only losers masturbate."
Just not true. According to some sexuality experts people who masturbate tend to function better sexually when with a partner since they know their own body and have fulfilled sexual expression.

If you masturbate you will go blind or bald or get acne or hair on your hands -- or lots of other anomalies. None of these have any basis in truth.

People in relationships or married don't masturbate.
Wrong again. (Many couples masturbate mutually).

"Masturbation will stunt your growth"
Nice try, but wrong again.

“If you masturbate you'll never be able to have children”
I get this question as an e-mail often, this is just not true, who started this myth? If that was true none of us would be on this planet.

“Can masturbation hurt me?”

Q. What is an erection?

A. An erection is a hardening of the penis that occurs when tubes in the penile tissues fill up with blood. Usually, an erection causes the penis to enlarge and stand away from the body. Erections away on their own or after ejaculation -- the release of semen through the urethra, the small hole at the tip of the penis.

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Q. Is It normal to get erections during the day?

A. Yes. Erections are a perfectly normal function of the male body, especially in guys who are going through puberty. Many erections are caused by sexual arousal, such as watching a sexy movie or from sexual fantasizing. Many seem to happen for no reason at all. If you've gotten an erection during a weird or embarrassing situation -- like in the middle of a really boring history class -- there's no reason to worry that something is wrong with you. Your body is just acting naturally for a guy your age.

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Q. Can masturbating hurt me?

A. No, not really. You might get sore if you are masturbating a lot. See the Masturbation article for more on that topic. If you feel sore from masturbating too much, than that is too much for you.

Some people engage in a thing called auto-erotic asphyxiation. This can end in accidental death. Auto-erotic asphyxiation is defined as the induction of cerebral anoxia -- a deficiency of oxygen in the brain through self-applied suffocation methods while masturbating. PLEASE do not try this!

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Q. Do I have to go to my doctor to get birth control?

A. You don't have to go to a doctor to get condoms, sexual lubricants or dental dams. Condoms are sold in most drug stores chains, in some super markets and via the Internet. Visit Condomania Online for “They Fit” condoms and a huge selection in 55 sizes.

If you decide to take the Pill, use a Diaphragm, Depo-Provera, or “the Patch” - Ortho Evra, you will have to see a health care provider or a clinic.

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Q. Can I get pregnant from from giving oral sex to a guy?

A. No Way! Its Oral sex and there are no relation to the respiratory system.

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Q. I'm a female about to have sex for the first time. I want to know, will sex hurt? Will there be blood?

A. Sex shouldn't hurt, whether it’s your first time or your hundredth time. Most women do not bleed a lot the first time they have sexual intercourse. If there is bleeding, it's usually because your hymen broke or has torn. The hymen is a membrane that covers the opening of a girl's or woman's vagina. It covers (surrounds) the vaginal opening only partially. Hymens do not all look the same. Most girls break their hymens during childhood, often without knowing from activities like bike riding or horseback riding or from using tampons.¾ If your hymen is still intact, you can stretch it open yourself for several weeks before you have intercourse. It should be pushed to the sides of the vagina.

Put one or two clean fingers into your vaginal opening and move them gently from side to side. Do this every day until is stretches. There may be normal spotting of blood when you do this. If sex hurts, it's usually because a woman hasn't been sexually aroused through foreplay. That means her vagina isn't lubricated enough before a man penetrates her.


None of these myths are true. And while there will always be those who make religious or moral arguments against masturbation -- if you are Catholic you may have been taught that it is “sinful to spill seed” or masturbation is “seed wasted”. So, that is something you will have to decide for yourself. When done in moderation, masturbation seems to be a common, "normal", healthy way to get sexual satisfaction. It is one that is safe and does NOT run the risks of pregnancy, STDs or incompatible sexual preferences. But, use good sense while masturbating. If you are sore from spending TOO much time with yourself -- stop and let your body heal. Getting irritated skin is not uncommon, so don't panic and use plenty of water soluble lubrication next time. (Like Astroglide ® or Wet ®). If irritation persists see your health care provider. Remember, lubrication! Especially you guys (or gals using a vibrator).

If you are spending a lot of your time masturbating and it is interfering with your school work, your job, or the rest of your life, then you might want to stop and think about why you are doing it so much. A person can become obsessed with anything.

See the how to masturbate page for women if need be. A guide for beginners or for those who have never explored.

Are there benefits to masturbation?
Yes. Masturbation can help relieve stress and
Relieve menstrual cramps.
Help for insomnia (i.e. when a person is having trouble falling asleep)
Stimulate the immune system to help build up resistance to common infections.
Release mood elevating hormones.
Reduce embarrassing spontaneous erections for teen males.
Reduce the number of unwanted wet dreams for young men.
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